‘We Don’t Want to be Heroes’: One Couple’s Church Planting Strategy

Brianna Langley • Oct 09, 2018

“The word that sticks in my mind is walls ,” TEAM missionary David North told his wife, Kathy when they scouted out the location of their last church plant. “There are cement walls everywhere, it’s industrial, it’s dirty, it’s gray, but there are also spiritual walls.”

When David and Kathy moved to the Filipino city of Mandaue they could feel an overwhelming darkness. But still, they moved.

David and Kathy North have been church planters for over 20 years and have successfully planted several churches. They are champions for growing the Kingdom. But it hasn’t always been an easy road. Several times throughout their career, they have been on the brink of throwing in the towel entirely. But the Lord brought them through each season of weariness with gained insights and new understanding.

Now, after years of prayer, trial and error , they have broken their church planting strategy down into a simple, biblical formula. And today, they’re sharing it with you!

Phase One: Research, Research, Research

When the Norths plant a church, it all starts with research.

“For us, every time we finish a church plant in one city, then we do a survey and we do research, and we try to find the cities and towns that are the least evangelized, ” David says. “And we don’t want to be in a city where we’re competing with other churches.”

The Norths chose to build their last church plant in Mandaue, a city on the island of Cebu , where the population was less than 1 percent evangelical.

Even fellow believers warned David and Kathy about taking the Gospel to Mandaue, calling it the “graveyard of missions,” because missionaries typically only last about two years before giving up.

But the Norths knew God had a harvest waiting among this hard soil. They just needed to find out who He wanted them to reach.

Phase Two: Who is Your Audience?

Figuring out who exactly they were ministering to contributed hugely to the rapid growth of the Norths’ newest church plant, in the city of Consolacion.

“Consolacion has kind of got two groups of people: There are the original Consolacion people, and then there’s the large number of professional people who have moved here from Cebu City to try and find an area where they can have their own house, because down in Cebu City, it’s completely full,” David says.

The original people of Consolacion speak the island’s local language, Cebuano, and the Christians there worship in small house churches. However, most of the professionals speak English, so that’s the target group David and Kathy chose to center their church plant on — and that affected how they designed their ministry.

“We specifically felt like we should start a church here that caters to professionals, and people who prefer English, so we use mostly English in the services,” Kathy says.

Defining a target audience is the easiest way to spend your energy on the right people.

Phase Three: Building Relationships

Once the Norths have chosen a location and determined their target audience, they immediately start building relationships.

In Consolacion, they focused first on integrating themselves into the community. Then, they started working with a team they brought from their previous church plant.

“So we started up with a few people from our previous church plant who were from this area,” David says. “And we had a team building retreat, and at that, we made a list of ways that we could bridge into people’s lives, to connect with people.”

The Norths and their team made a list of about 50 different ideas, ranging from tennis to civic clubs to jewelry-making. Then, they narrowed the list down to a more realistic number and got to work.

Because they had already done so much research on the area during phase one, they had an idea of which outreach efforts would be most effective.

“But then we also have our evangelism training and our evangelistic Bible study methods,” David says. “We try to train all of the members in how to share the Gospel, how to disciple someone and how to lead an evangelistic Bible study.”

This leads us to another key phase in the Norths’ strategy: Teaching members how to pass on what they’ve learned.

Phase Four: Teach Others to Pass it on

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Discipling and training members of the church plant to share the Gospel with others is a key component of any church planting strategy.

“Starting from day one, when we’re first doing Bible study with people, one of the assignments at the end of the lesson is, ‘What’s something that you learned in this lesson that you can share with someone else this week?’” Kathy says. “So it’s constantly being passed on.”

And now, all these new Christians are building the church plant as they grow in their own faith. They lead Bible studies, evangelism training and worship. Because of how well David and Kathy have equipped them, they’re able to bring people to Christ on their own!

“One of the exciting things, as we’ve been going along, is that I’ve been training a few of the guys in preaching, and they take their turns to preach. And we get together and evaluate who it is, and we talk about the upcoming messages,” David says. “Some of them are really preaching well now!”

Phase Five: What is Your Exit Plan?

Watching a church plant grow is a wonderful feeling — but for church planters like the Norths, it’s also a signal that the time to move on is near. And goodbyes are always bittersweet, even under the best of circumstances.

“But this is what we’re here to do, is to get it started and then move on,” says David.

The final step in the Norths’ strategy is executing their exit plan.

For the Norths, several key elements have to be in place in a church plant before they will leave it , including a locally-led worship team, an established discipleship plan to take new members through, thriving community small groups, a ministry that is financially self-sustaining and trained local leadership , including a pastor.

Every phase of the church plant works toward establishing these pieces. And now, the Consolacion church now has every element except the last one.

Soon, the congregation will be up and running on its own.

A Recipe for Successful Church Plants

“When I was a young missionary, I did burn out several times because I felt like I had to do it. I had to do everything,” David says. “And I wasn’t good at really just enabling and equipping others.”

Now, teaching others how to effectively pass on the Gospel message is David and Kathy’s first priority with every church plant.

And even though it can be exhausting work, there is no greater calling than making disciples among the nations .

“Maybe you’ve heard the phrase, ‘We don’t want to be heroes, we want to be hero-makers.’ And I think that’s so important in church planting,” says Kathy. “Because as church planters, you’re not going to be there forever. It has to be more of them and less of us.”

By Megan Lunsford 23 Apr, 2024
When seeking to serve cross-culturally with an authentic love for others, there’s no better example for us than Jesus. If we sat around a table and threw out the question, “How do we love like Jesus?” I think we would have several commonalities as we respond. For example, Jesus loved all people right where they were. He loved those who were deemed the least, those hardest to love, or those who were His enemies. These are all beautiful realities of the heart of Jesus. When we step into relationships, it can be easier to take on the warmer, more gracious gestures of Jesus’ love, especially in cross-cultural relationships. Think about it––when doing life with those who look and act differently than us, we are already out of our comfort zones and would rather keep things as simple and familiar as possible. But there are other facets of Jesus’ heart we often overlook that can transform us and others even more into His likeness. Jesus is love because God is love. Everything Jesus did was out of love; it’s the mere definition of who He is. As followers of Jesus, He calls us to the same: “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.” (1 John:7-12) Every display of love we offer to others is an opportunity for them to encounter the ultimate love of the Father. That’s a pretty big deal! In this article, we’ll look at three expressions of Jesus’ love that we tend to overlook when engaging others cross-culturally. (Next month, we’ll look at three more.) 1. Jesus loved sacrificially. Everywhere Jesus went, crowds followed Him. We even see times in Scripture where Jesus had plans to step away for time alone but those who were hurting found Him and He had compassion on them and stayed with them. Can you imagine rarely having any time to yourself but, instead, constantly being surrounded by crowds of people wanting help from you? Jesus loved sacrificially. He welcomed all who came to Him with love and compassion, never turning anyone away. “When He saw the crowds, He was moved with compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matthew 9:36) In the same way, we can make room in our lives for Jesus to bring sacrificial interruptions which, in His eyes, are orchestrated encounters to transfer His love to others. It can be tempting to be so “on mission” that we are full steam ahead and find ourselves frustrated when the Holy Spirit sends an interruption into our path that we feel we don’t have time for. Or, perhaps, we have scheduled a meet-up but it’s the norm in another culture to be 30 minutes or an hour late. We anxiously think through how it will affect whatever we have planned next. While it’s normal to feel a little stressed, what if the very "interruption” standing in front of you was really a divine appointment sent by God? Or what if that person running late experiences how peaceful and gracious you are in adapting to their culture and therefore, they can encounter a beautiful display of Jesus’ love? To truly represent Christ, we should remain ready and willing for each assignment the Lord sends into our path, no matter the cost or how much we will have to re-route our day. He is always a hundred steps ahead and will work all things for His glory and our good. 2. Jesus loved by discerning each situation well. Think about how many situations Jesus had to respond to on a daily basis. We read in Scripture that there were lines of people waiting to be healed by Him, talk to Him, hear His teachings, or simply touch the hem of His robe. Jesus was fully dependent on His Father to discern each situation before addressing it. “Most assuredly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, but what He sees the Father do; for whatever He does, the Son also does in like manner.” (John 5:19) Another temptation we can have when in a relationship with those God has sent us to is to think we already know the solution or what God wants to do before we’ve even asked Him. We believe we are full of knowledge, so we just pull from the bank we have stored within and go with it. However, when we access what is familiar to us as our default, we risk missing out on a God-given solution that might truly be the key to unlocking whatever challenge is in front of us. What does this look like when interacting with others? We can simply ask, “God, what is on Your heart for the person standing in front of me?” Then we listen and respond as He speaks. When we make it a daily habit to pause and hear God’s heart for each situation before responding, we are guaranteed to be effective in loving those around us. He knows the heart of every person that will cross our paths. Imagine how impactful we can be if we first lean on His wisdom and discernment before moving forward. 3. Jesus loved by speaking truth. Most of us are familiar with the story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well. If we are honest, this conversation makes us a bit nervous as none of us would be comfortable with Jesus calling out intimate details of our lives that we would prefer to hide. But Jesus went further than just airing her dirty laundry. He offered her the hope of the Gospel and a relationship with Him - a divine fulfillment that could never be found in an earthly relationship. Jesus modeled a powerful example of loving others well cross-culturally. He took the low place and spoke truth, truly out of love––speaking to her heart from His. Like Jesus, our goal in sharing the truths about Him and His Word is to bring hope and satisfaction through Him alone. When we speak truth from Scripture, we are calling others higher into all God has for them. The tricky part here is we should avoid speaking truth if it isn’t first fueled by compassion. If it merely comes from a place of judgment, condemnation, or self-righteousness, it will fall flat 100% of the time. But if it truly comes from love, you are likely to not only win a heart back to the Father but, like the story of the Samaritan woman, even an entire village! If you see someone living outside of God’s best for their lives, ask God to show you your heart before engaging theirs. Once your heart is properly postured, you can speak truth out of an overflow of God’s love and trust Him for a transformation in their lives.
By Suzanne Pearson 16 Apr, 2024
TEAM Canada provides warm welcome and trusted friendships for diaspora populations living far from their native countries. As TEAM Canada workers Peter and Ruth (names changed) drive from their home to a nearby community center, they pass numerous apartment buildings and townhouses. Most of the families who live there are immigrants. They’ve left their countries of origin due to political unrest, trauma, and other difficulties. They’ve left family, friends, homes, jobs, and personal wealth behind. They search for peace, justice for the oppressed, and rest from fear and weariness. And as they adjust to a new country and a new language, they are often very isolated from others around them. “The sad reality is most immigrants are never even invited inside a Canadian home,” says Ruth. Peter and Ruth and their team try to change that reality. For the last nine years, the team, which includes workers from partner organizations as well as volunteers, has held English classes at the community center. Three days a week, over 60 students from more than 20 countries come together to learn English as well as to fellowship together and receive practical help in assimilating to a new normal. Meeting Needs and Building Trust That practical help may come in the form of procuring furniture, clothes, or dishes for newcomers, assistance with creating a resume and finding a job, or teaching people how to navigate Canadian laws and the medical system. As these tangible needs are met, relationships are built. “We invite them into our homes for meals and games,” Ruth shares. “We take them on hiking trips, picnics, outings, and out for coffee.” This is particularly important in this type of ministry because most immigrants come to Canada from cultures that value hospitality. Conversely, Canadians do not typically prioritize hospitality and consequently many newcomers feel lonely and isolated. Inviting folks to various gatherings and outings allows the team to spend extended time hearing people’s stories, struggles, hopes, and dreams. When she speaks about building friendships, Ruth’s heart for the people she serves is evident. “Hearing their stories, it’s easy to love them, and many have become close friends,” Ruth says. “We recognize the value of steady one-on-one relationships.”
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