10 Not-So-Silly Questions You May Have About Missions

Suzanne Pearson • Mar 25, 2022

Growing up I had a high school teacher with a poster in his class that read, “The only silly question is the one you didn’t ask.” In Mr. Johnson’s case, this referred to the complex world of algebra, but for potential missionaries, the dilemma can be the same.

If you’re considering going to the mission field, you’ve likely already thought about the “big” questions – what type of ministry you’ll do, where you’ll go, etc. But often, potential missionaries wonder about the day-to-day aspects of missionary life as well. Maybe you have some of these details swirling around in your head but feel silly asking about them.

In the spirit of good old Mr. Johnson (and with a little help from our friends at askamissionary.com ), here are 10 Not-So-Silly Questions You May Have About Missions:

1. Can I be a missionary if I’m an introvert?

“Absolutely,” says Linda Brucato a TEAM Appointee Mentor who works with new missionaries. “Some of the best missionaries are introverts!”

As the Bible tells us in Romans 12:6-8 and 1 Corinthians 12:4-11 , God gifts each believer differently, but all are equipped to serve Him and be a light to the world.

So rest assured, God uses different personality types on the mission field.

2. How poor will I have to be as a missionary?

TEAM requires all missionaries to raise what we call a ‘living allowance,’” Linda explains. “This is a sum that is generally based on the average US teacher’s salary. TEAM also offers a retirement fund for Long Term missionaries to invest in as well as medical coverage.”

Anna Price, TEAM’s Director of Mobilization gives great insight on this issue as well. “Some missionaries feel called to marketplace ministry, taking a paying job overseas and being a light to coworkers,” she notes. “Either way, you may struggle with the idea that advancing your career looks entirely different as a missionary in comparison to the American dream. As God makes His call to global work clear in your life, talk to Him about your desires and expectations in this area, and be prepared for your lifestyle and career to look different than you thought it would.”

Read more about finances and raising support .

3. Will I have time for hobbies?

TEAM Mission Coaches assure potential missionaries that not only is leisure time accounted for on the mission field, but hobbies are an important part of missionary life. “Each missionary has a weekly day off,” says Linda. “Missionaries are encouraged to connect with their community and to find ways to relax and enjoy others.”

Further, hobbies can also open up new opportunities for ministry. TEAM’s Steve Dresselhaus ( Mexico ) is a great example. His current ministry was born out of his love for kayaking .

To hear from more missionaries about how God has used their hobbies, read here .

4. How will I get around? (Will I get a car? A motorcycle? Can I bring my bike?)

Transportation options are in large part determined by where you go. Many missionaries have cars, bikes, or motorcycles, and some use public transportation. Another consideration is the laws for driver’s licenses in the country where you serve – some will require you to obtain a license from that country while others will allow you to drive on your US driver’s license.

Joshua Kuhns, a TEAM Mission Coach who served in Southeast Asia, is an avid cyclist. He shares that he was able to bring 2 bikes with him to the mission field. “Cycling continued to be an integral part of my life and ministry there in South Asia in much the same way it had been for me in the US.”

Regardless of where you serve, your ministry supervisor will help you figure out the best transportation options.


5. Can missionaries get tattoos?

The short answer according to Linda is “Yes.” TEAM has no policy against tattoos, but it is important to know how tattoos, piercings, etc. may be perceived by the culture you serve in. For some regions, tattoos might create barriers to ministry, while for others, they might open doors for conversation and connections.

Read more here from missionaries on both sides of this topic.

6. How often can I go back home?

This will likely depend on your ministry area. In most cases TEAM missionaries get what’s called a “home assignment” every 2-4 years. There are also sometimes trips home for special circumstances like illness/medical needs or a family emergency. This is typically decided by your ministry supervisor.

Joshua notes, “There are lots of experiences and studies that show it is pretty important for reasons related to culture adjustment and community with the host culture, to not travel back home more than once per year. The timing of all travel, whether leisure or work-related, needs to be communicated with one’s supervisor in advance as much as possible.”

7. How do missionaries date and find spouses?

“Great question! How do you find them here?” laughs Linda. Like every good love story, the circumstances for dating and courtship will be unique for each missionary, and guidance is provided by the ministry supervisor.

“Many single workers wrestle with their call to missions and their desire for a spouse,” shares Anna. “TEAM encourages you to talk to God and your church community to give you peace about what may be a sacrifice in this area. Nancy Sturrock, a TEAM retired missionary once shared, ‘I need to be single with my whole heart and go about what He’s given me to do today.’”

8. Can I learn the language from an app?

“Language is essential, so TEAM puts a high priority on learning the language of the people you are going to serve,” says Linda. To that end, most missionaries attend a language school in the country where they will serve. Others have language tutors. Apps like Duo Lingo and others like it may be a good way to supplement a more comprehensive language study, or just to practice, but they shouldn’t be the main source of language learning.

Joshua warns that apps often fail to distinguish between a more formal way of speaking and everyday usage or slang. “You also miss out on learning the culture of the person you are learning from as you are engaging with technology versus building a relationship with a native speaker,” he adds. “Rarely would learning via even the best-constructed app program compare to learning from a native speaker in the native environment.”

9. Can I bring my dog?

Your best furry friend may be jumping in your suitcase, ready to travel the world with you! But it will depend on your ministry area and the details of your service as to whether he’ll be able to tag along. “It is dependent on the country, the ministry, and the recommendation of the ministry area leaders,” says TEAM Mission Coach, Trudy Kutz.

Trudy also cautions that it is important to remember that the time constraints and demands of learning a new language and culture at the beginning of an assignment may make it unwise to have a pet during the initial stages of your ministry.

10. Is there a place for “regular” Christians without special training?

Many potential missionaries wonder if they have the right qualifications for missions . The reality is that the mission field is filled with ordinary people doing extraordinary things for God’s Kingdom! But that doesn’t mean that you can jump on a plane tomorrow and be ready for effective ministry. TEAM mobilizes people with a heart to reach the world for Christ and then prepares and equips them to do just that!

Linda says it best: “TEAM will make it very clear what the requirements are and then help you meet them! We train all new missionaries before departure and then there will be further training in the ministry area.”


Deciding to answer the call to missions is a very big decision and it’s important to know the challenges and opportunities that may lie ahead. Talk to a TEAM Mission Coach today to have ALL your questions answered! (Mr. Johnson will be very proud of you for asking.)

By Megan Lunsford 23 Apr, 2024
When seeking to serve cross-culturally with an authentic love for others, there’s no better example for us than Jesus. If we sat around a table and threw out the question, “How do we love like Jesus?” I think we would have several commonalities as we respond. For example, Jesus loved all people right where they were. He loved those who were deemed the least, those hardest to love, or those who were His enemies. These are all beautiful realities of the heart of Jesus. When we step into relationships, it can be easier to take on the warmer, more gracious gestures of Jesus’ love, especially in cross-cultural relationships. Think about it––when doing life with those who look and act differently than us, we are already out of our comfort zones and would rather keep things as simple and familiar as possible. But there are other facets of Jesus’ heart we often overlook that can transform us and others even more into His likeness. Jesus is love because God is love. Everything Jesus did was out of love; it’s the mere definition of who He is. As followers of Jesus, He calls us to the same: “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.” (1 John:7-12) Every display of love we offer to others is an opportunity for them to encounter the ultimate love of the Father. That’s a pretty big deal! In this article, we’ll look at three expressions of Jesus’ love that we tend to overlook when engaging others cross-culturally. (Next month, we’ll look at three more.) 1. Jesus loved sacrificially. Everywhere Jesus went, crowds followed Him. We even see times in Scripture where Jesus had plans to step away for time alone but those who were hurting found Him and He had compassion on them and stayed with them. Can you imagine rarely having any time to yourself but, instead, constantly being surrounded by crowds of people wanting help from you? Jesus loved sacrificially. He welcomed all who came to Him with love and compassion, never turning anyone away. “When He saw the crowds, He was moved with compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matthew 9:36) In the same way, we can make room in our lives for Jesus to bring sacrificial interruptions which, in His eyes, are orchestrated encounters to transfer His love to others. It can be tempting to be so “on mission” that we are full steam ahead and find ourselves frustrated when the Holy Spirit sends an interruption into our path that we feel we don’t have time for. Or, perhaps, we have scheduled a meet-up but it’s the norm in another culture to be 30 minutes or an hour late. We anxiously think through how it will affect whatever we have planned next. While it’s normal to feel a little stressed, what if the very "interruption” standing in front of you was really a divine appointment sent by God? Or what if that person running late experiences how peaceful and gracious you are in adapting to their culture and therefore, they can encounter a beautiful display of Jesus’ love? To truly represent Christ, we should remain ready and willing for each assignment the Lord sends into our path, no matter the cost or how much we will have to re-route our day. He is always a hundred steps ahead and will work all things for His glory and our good. 2. Jesus loved by discerning each situation well. Think about how many situations Jesus had to respond to on a daily basis. We read in Scripture that there were lines of people waiting to be healed by Him, talk to Him, hear His teachings, or simply touch the hem of His robe. Jesus was fully dependent on His Father to discern each situation before addressing it. “Most assuredly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, but what He sees the Father do; for whatever He does, the Son also does in like manner.” (John 5:19) Another temptation we can have when in a relationship with those God has sent us to is to think we already know the solution or what God wants to do before we’ve even asked Him. We believe we are full of knowledge, so we just pull from the bank we have stored within and go with it. However, when we access what is familiar to us as our default, we risk missing out on a God-given solution that might truly be the key to unlocking whatever challenge is in front of us. What does this look like when interacting with others? We can simply ask, “God, what is on Your heart for the person standing in front of me?” Then we listen and respond as He speaks. When we make it a daily habit to pause and hear God’s heart for each situation before responding, we are guaranteed to be effective in loving those around us. He knows the heart of every person that will cross our paths. Imagine how impactful we can be if we first lean on His wisdom and discernment before moving forward. 3. Jesus loved by speaking truth. Most of us are familiar with the story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well. If we are honest, this conversation makes us a bit nervous as none of us would be comfortable with Jesus calling out intimate details of our lives that we would prefer to hide. But Jesus went further than just airing her dirty laundry. He offered her the hope of the Gospel and a relationship with Him - a divine fulfillment that could never be found in an earthly relationship. Jesus modeled a powerful example of loving others well cross-culturally. He took the low place and spoke truth, truly out of love––speaking to her heart from His. Like Jesus, our goal in sharing the truths about Him and His Word is to bring hope and satisfaction through Him alone. When we speak truth from Scripture, we are calling others higher into all God has for them. The tricky part here is we should avoid speaking truth if it isn’t first fueled by compassion. If it merely comes from a place of judgment, condemnation, or self-righteousness, it will fall flat 100% of the time. But if it truly comes from love, you are likely to not only win a heart back to the Father but, like the story of the Samaritan woman, even an entire village! If you see someone living outside of God’s best for their lives, ask God to show you your heart before engaging theirs. Once your heart is properly postured, you can speak truth out of an overflow of God’s love and trust Him for a transformation in their lives.
By Suzanne Pearson 16 Apr, 2024
TEAM Canada provides warm welcome and trusted friendships for diaspora populations living far from their native countries. As TEAM Canada workers Peter and Ruth (names changed) drive from their home to a nearby community center, they pass numerous apartment buildings and townhouses. Most of the families who live there are immigrants. They’ve left their countries of origin due to political unrest, trauma, and other difficulties. They’ve left family, friends, homes, jobs, and personal wealth behind. They search for peace, justice for the oppressed, and rest from fear and weariness. And as they adjust to a new country and a new language, they are often very isolated from others around them. “The sad reality is most immigrants are never even invited inside a Canadian home,” says Ruth. Peter and Ruth and their team try to change that reality. For the last nine years, the team, which includes workers from partner organizations as well as volunteers, has held English classes at the community center. Three days a week, over 60 students from more than 20 countries come together to learn English as well as to fellowship together and receive practical help in assimilating to a new normal. Meeting Needs and Building Trust That practical help may come in the form of procuring furniture, clothes, or dishes for newcomers, assistance with creating a resume and finding a job, or teaching people how to navigate Canadian laws and the medical system. As these tangible needs are met, relationships are built. “We invite them into our homes for meals and games,” Ruth shares. “We take them on hiking trips, picnics, outings, and out for coffee.” This is particularly important in this type of ministry because most immigrants come to Canada from cultures that value hospitality. Conversely, Canadians do not typically prioritize hospitality and consequently many newcomers feel lonely and isolated. Inviting folks to various gatherings and outings allows the team to spend extended time hearing people’s stories, struggles, hopes, and dreams. When she speaks about building friendships, Ruth’s heart for the people she serves is evident. “Hearing their stories, it’s easy to love them, and many have become close friends,” Ruth says. “We recognize the value of steady one-on-one relationships.”
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