When God Changes Our Plans

Suzanne Pearson • Apr 27, 2022

“If you want to make God laugh, tell Him your plans.” We’ve likely all heard this saying before, but it still takes us by surprise when things don’t go the way we expected. We so often have the best of intentions for our family, lives, and ministry and it throws us for a loop when God takes us in a different direction.

Jon and Tammy Junker, TEAM global workers in Japan , know what that feels like. Jon was a missionary kid, born and raised in Japan. Tammy grew up in California, and served as an English teacher and with TEAM’s Operation Helping Hands in Japan before she met Jon. The two married and built a life together, serving in Azumino and Matsumoto, two communities in Nagano, Japan. In 1999 they welcomed son Jon Luc, and three years later his brother, Peter. Jon worked in a church planting ministry while Tammy homeschooled the boys and also served in women’s ministry and outreach at the church.

As the boys got older and more independent in their learning, Jon and Tammy began to think about the next stage of life. Tammy would have more time to join Jon in ministry, and they looked forward to the opportunities that might open up as they entered this new season.

And then God laughed.


An Unexpected Surprise

Tammy was 46 and Jon 58 when they realized, much to their surprise, that they were expecting another baby!

When she first began to suspect that she might be pregnant, Tammy says her first reaction was not exactly excitement. “I thought, If I’m pregnant, I’m going to be so depressed. But then it was so interesting because when [the pregnancy was confirmed], I had a total peace that was just unexplainable. I thought, ‘OK, you know what? I’m in God’s hand.’ He gave me that peace.”

And so the family adjusted to the surprising news that their family would be expanding and a few months later they welcomed their baby girl, Meigan. The Junkers believed that Meigan’s arrival was the only change in their vision of what future ministry might look like. “Our plan was to stay as long as possible in the rural area, doing homeschooling and continuing the ministry,” remembers Tammy.

But then once again God revealed a new and different plan.


A New Assignment from the Lord

When Meigan was a toddler, her older brother Peter was entering his high school years. Around that same time, the Junker family came back to the U.S. for a year of home assignment. Peter attended a Christian school in the States. He thrived in the school setting – so much so that when the family was ready to return to Japan, they began to rethink what would be best for Peter’s education.

Homeschooling and online school didn’t seem to be great options for Peter at that time, but there is no international Christian school in the Nagano area where the Junker family had been in ministry for so many years. The Junkers found that God was calling the family to the Tokyo area – a place that would be ideal for Peter’s education but that was NOT in their “plans” for ministry.

“I’ll be honest,” Jon admits. “The last thing I wanted to do was come to Tokyo. There are lots of people here, lots of Christians, lots of churches.” He goes on, “My concern was always ‘we need to get the missionaries OUT of Tokyo’…and then God brought us here!”

Tammy adds, “We loved where we were, and God was doing great things there. We were looking forward to what He was going to do and then realized [God was calling us] to Tokyo.”

So the family said goodbye to their church and ministry in Nagano and settled in a suburban neighborhood near Tokyo. Soon they noticed a few things about their new location. Because Tokyo tends to have a lot of people who come from different areas, the Junkers noticed that the people were more outgoing than in their previous ministry communities. “The culture is so open and friendly, probably because everyone else is from other places too,” says Tammy.

This openness allowed the Junkers to get to know their neighbors who are often out and about. The family also had two great conversation starters that God would use in ways they had not seen in Nagano.


The Junker family walking their dog in their Japanese neighborhood.

The Junkers’ new community offered a different kind of mission field for their family.


Meigan and “Lady” Open Doors for Ministry

Enter Meigan and “Lady,” the Junkers’ dachshund! Tammy found that whenever she took walks with Meigan and Lady, people always wanted to stop and talk to them. Meigan was a bit of a curiosity with her reddish-auburn hair and bubbly personality, and Lady is a sweet, friendly dog who loves attention. The pair began to open doors for Jon and Tammy to build relationships in their new community. “I think that God just arranged it all,” says Tammy. “He brought us to a house that’s in a community that is ideal.”

As time went on, Tammy befriended the neighbor across the street whose daughters played with Meigan. That friendship grew into regular times of fellowship and interaction with both moms and kids. Tammy hosted several different club-type groups in her home, including a “Kids’ Bible Time” with kids from a variety of faith backgrounds.

“The parents are all for them learning the Bible,” Tammy says, “So I’m just joining in the work God is already doing in the hearts of these kids and moms.” The pandemic also opened a door for Tammy to study the Bible with junior high girls in the neighborhood. Tammy teaches them about the creator God who loves them and cares about their choices. The pandemic was hard on them and Tammy had the opportunity to walk through some of those difficulties with them.

Jon also sees the Lord’s purposes in the family’s move. As an ORR (Organizational Relations Representative) for TEAM, Jon’s job is to work as a “bridge” between TEAM and local churches and pastors. And with 40% of Japan’s churches being in the Tokyo area, there is no shortage of work to be done. He explains that getting churches to work together to advance the Gospel isn’t always easy.

“Japan is a very group-oriented culture, but it’s very separate as far as individual churches,” Tammy explains. “They don’t work together. It’s sad to see little struggling churches all around, scattered here and there and they don’t pool resources.”

Jon, who grew up as a missionary kid in Japan, understands this well. His extensive experience in connecting churches is a blessing to many. “God has really brought in quality people and quality churches for us to work with,” he says.


Today Meigan is a precocious 7-year-old. She serves as a reminder that God’s plans are amazing.

“God always has a better plan.”

Now as Jon and Tammy look back, they can give testimony to how important it is to trust God’s plan , even when it doesn’t line up with ours. They marvel at how much their family is blessed to have Meigan, and how their move to Tokyo has benefited not only Peter’s education, but also their family and ministry as a whole. Jon and Tammy encourage others to remember to trust God’s plan in their own lives as well.

“It happens to everyone!” says Tammy. “You’ve got examples in the Bible, too. Look at Joseph…what was his plan? What about Moses? Everybody has these ideas and then it’s like, ‘Oh man, look, what’s going on. God doesn’t know what he’s doing.’ But no, there was a better plan. God always has a better plan. And you can’t see it when you’re just bummed because what you wanted didn’t happen.”

Jon adds that COVID has put us all in that position – there isn’t anyone who has not experienced plans changing. And yet God is not limited in any way by what’s happened. Jon goes on to say that the pandemic has been good for the Japanese church because challenged the way they do things. “They never did anything digitally, nothing online,” he says. “The pandemic has forced them to be more open about that.”

Experiencing changes like a surprise baby, relocation, and the pandemic helped the Junkers to trust God at a deeper level. For others going through unexpected changes, Tammy confidently offers this encouragement: “God’s got better plans, just hang in there and wait and see what He’s going to do.”

By Megan Lunsford 23 Apr, 2024
When seeking to serve cross-culturally with an authentic love for others, there’s no better example for us than Jesus. If we sat around a table and threw out the question, “How do we love like Jesus?” I think we would have several commonalities as we respond. For example, Jesus loved all people right where they were. He loved those who were deemed the least, those hardest to love, or those who were His enemies. These are all beautiful realities of the heart of Jesus. When we step into relationships, it can be easier to take on the warmer, more gracious gestures of Jesus’ love, especially in cross-cultural relationships. Think about it––when doing life with those who look and act differently than us, we are already out of our comfort zones and would rather keep things as simple and familiar as possible. But there are other facets of Jesus’ heart we often overlook that can transform us and others even more into His likeness. Jesus is love because God is love. Everything Jesus did was out of love; it’s the mere definition of who He is. As followers of Jesus, He calls us to the same: “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.” (1 John:7-12) Every display of love we offer to others is an opportunity for them to encounter the ultimate love of the Father. That’s a pretty big deal! In this article, we’ll look at three expressions of Jesus’ love that we tend to overlook when engaging others cross-culturally. (Next month, we’ll look at three more.) 1. Jesus loved sacrificially. Everywhere Jesus went, crowds followed Him. We even see times in Scripture where Jesus had plans to step away for time alone but those who were hurting found Him and He had compassion on them and stayed with them. Can you imagine rarely having any time to yourself but, instead, constantly being surrounded by crowds of people wanting help from you? Jesus loved sacrificially. He welcomed all who came to Him with love and compassion, never turning anyone away. “When He saw the crowds, He was moved with compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matthew 9:36) In the same way, we can make room in our lives for Jesus to bring sacrificial interruptions which, in His eyes, are orchestrated encounters to transfer His love to others. It can be tempting to be so “on mission” that we are full steam ahead and find ourselves frustrated when the Holy Spirit sends an interruption into our path that we feel we don’t have time for. Or, perhaps, we have scheduled a meet-up but it’s the norm in another culture to be 30 minutes or an hour late. We anxiously think through how it will affect whatever we have planned next. While it’s normal to feel a little stressed, what if the very "interruption” standing in front of you was really a divine appointment sent by God? Or what if that person running late experiences how peaceful and gracious you are in adapting to their culture and therefore, they can encounter a beautiful display of Jesus’ love? To truly represent Christ, we should remain ready and willing for each assignment the Lord sends into our path, no matter the cost or how much we will have to re-route our day. He is always a hundred steps ahead and will work all things for His glory and our good. 2. Jesus loved by discerning each situation well. Think about how many situations Jesus had to respond to on a daily basis. We read in Scripture that there were lines of people waiting to be healed by Him, talk to Him, hear His teachings, or simply touch the hem of His robe. Jesus was fully dependent on His Father to discern each situation before addressing it. “Most assuredly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, but what He sees the Father do; for whatever He does, the Son also does in like manner.” (John 5:19) Another temptation we can have when in a relationship with those God has sent us to is to think we already know the solution or what God wants to do before we’ve even asked Him. We believe we are full of knowledge, so we just pull from the bank we have stored within and go with it. However, when we access what is familiar to us as our default, we risk missing out on a God-given solution that might truly be the key to unlocking whatever challenge is in front of us. What does this look like when interacting with others? We can simply ask, “God, what is on Your heart for the person standing in front of me?” Then we listen and respond as He speaks. When we make it a daily habit to pause and hear God’s heart for each situation before responding, we are guaranteed to be effective in loving those around us. He knows the heart of every person that will cross our paths. Imagine how impactful we can be if we first lean on His wisdom and discernment before moving forward. 3. Jesus loved by speaking truth. Most of us are familiar with the story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well. If we are honest, this conversation makes us a bit nervous as none of us would be comfortable with Jesus calling out intimate details of our lives that we would prefer to hide. But Jesus went further than just airing her dirty laundry. He offered her the hope of the Gospel and a relationship with Him - a divine fulfillment that could never be found in an earthly relationship. Jesus modeled a powerful example of loving others well cross-culturally. He took the low place and spoke truth, truly out of love––speaking to her heart from His. Like Jesus, our goal in sharing the truths about Him and His Word is to bring hope and satisfaction through Him alone. When we speak truth from Scripture, we are calling others higher into all God has for them. The tricky part here is we should avoid speaking truth if it isn’t first fueled by compassion. If it merely comes from a place of judgment, condemnation, or self-righteousness, it will fall flat 100% of the time. But if it truly comes from love, you are likely to not only win a heart back to the Father but, like the story of the Samaritan woman, even an entire village! If you see someone living outside of God’s best for their lives, ask God to show you your heart before engaging theirs. Once your heart is properly postured, you can speak truth out of an overflow of God’s love and trust Him for a transformation in their lives.
By Suzanne Pearson 16 Apr, 2024
TEAM Canada provides warm welcome and trusted friendships for diaspora populations living far from their native countries. As TEAM Canada workers Peter and Ruth (names changed) drive from their home to a nearby community center, they pass numerous apartment buildings and townhouses. Most of the families who live there are immigrants. They’ve left their countries of origin due to political unrest, trauma, and other difficulties. They’ve left family, friends, homes, jobs, and personal wealth behind. They search for peace, justice for the oppressed, and rest from fear and weariness. And as they adjust to a new country and a new language, they are often very isolated from others around them. “The sad reality is most immigrants are never even invited inside a Canadian home,” says Ruth. Peter and Ruth and their team try to change that reality. For the last nine years, the team, which includes workers from partner organizations as well as volunteers, has held English classes at the community center. Three days a week, over 60 students from more than 20 countries come together to learn English as well as to fellowship together and receive practical help in assimilating to a new normal. Meeting Needs and Building Trust That practical help may come in the form of procuring furniture, clothes, or dishes for newcomers, assistance with creating a resume and finding a job, or teaching people how to navigate Canadian laws and the medical system. As these tangible needs are met, relationships are built. “We invite them into our homes for meals and games,” Ruth shares. “We take them on hiking trips, picnics, outings, and out for coffee.” This is particularly important in this type of ministry because most immigrants come to Canada from cultures that value hospitality. Conversely, Canadians do not typically prioritize hospitality and consequently many newcomers feel lonely and isolated. Inviting folks to various gatherings and outings allows the team to spend extended time hearing people’s stories, struggles, hopes, and dreams. When she speaks about building friendships, Ruth’s heart for the people she serves is evident. “Hearing their stories, it’s easy to love them, and many have become close friends,” Ruth says. “We recognize the value of steady one-on-one relationships.”
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