3 Character Traits Every Church Planter Needs

Jeff Ingram • Oct 07, 2019

So you’re thinking of planting a church ? Perhaps you’re wondering whether you’ve got the right stuff. When my wife and I started planting churches in Europe in 1992, we didn’t know what all we were getting into. But along the way, we’ve learned some key character traits every church planter needs. Today, I’d like to describe just a few.

Diligence

When we left for Europe in 1992, my dad had just started his own business — an auto-painting and body shop. I heard firsthand how much time, effort and money it cost him. I can assure you, he had to work a lot more than 40 hours per week during the first few years just to keep the business going. Planting a church is similar to starting a business. It takes a lot of personal capital.

For example, a new church needs advertising materials that are tailored to the church plant and the people it’s trying to reach. Up until recently, I’ve never had a team member who was able to design flyers or a church home page, so I’ve done the work myself.

I’ve created and managed home pages for two church plants (in two languages in one church). I’ve also published flyers and created posters for numerous church events over the years. It’s been a lot of work! And keep in mind that public relations is just one small piece of the church-planting pie.

Before I went to seminary, I worked as an engineer at NASA. You’ve no doubt seen at least one space shuttle or rocket launch. During the first seconds after liftoff, incredible energy is expended to lift the massive weight of the rocket just a few feet off the launch pad.

The first few years of a church plant is similar to those first seconds after liftoff . Usually you have to expend a lot of energy before the thing starts to fly. If you aren’t willing to work hard, there’s a good chance your church will never get off the ground.

Purposefulness

Why do you want to plant a church? Believe it or not, there are a lot of lousy reasons for starting a new church. If your primary motivation isn’t biblical, forget it.

Jeff preaches to his congregation at his church plant in Dresden

The foundation for church planting must be biblical, and church planters must build everything else they do from that foundation.

For years, my wife and I have been directed by a simple purpose statement: We aim to start dynamic churches that will be known for their atmosphere of grace and their concern for outsiders . Certainly, there’s more to it than that, but virtually everything we do in church planting has its basis in that statement.

Church plants need a wide variety of activities and events to help fulfill their purpose. Clearly defining your purpose for starting a church gives you a framework for deciding what activities you’re going to put on the calendar.

Defining your purpose has another advantage. It helps you decide what NOT to do and to whom you say “no.” One of the leader’s biggest challenges in a church plant is to keep the ship on course.

It’s easy to get distracted and sidetracked by the cacophony of clashing visions. Keeping your purpose clearly in mind and reviewing it regularly helps you stay on course and fulfill your purpose.

Teamwork

God does call some to be lone rangers in difficult pioneer settings; however, most of us need to work in a team . It’s biblical!

In a church plant, there is a myriad of tasks that need to be done on a regular basis. I liken it to juggling. Sometimes it seems almost impossible to keep the 10 to 12 different balls in the air. When you work in a team, you have others to help share the load.

And although you may be tempted to do everything yourself — because no one else will do it as well as you can — don’t. As Peter reminds us: “Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God’s grace in its various forms.”

Jeff and his wife sit together with another member of their team

Working as a part of a team is vital in church planting. That way no one person is doing everything on his or her own, and burnout can be more easily avoided.

God may have given you certain gifts necessary for planting churches. But the members of your team are gifted in ways you are not. Thank God for that! Don’t squash others’ potential by trying to do everything yourself. Let your team members use and develop their own gifts — and become conduits for God’s grace in the process.

In our previous church plant, we had a teammate who was a good counselor , but hated public speaking . So my wife and I let her do most of the counseling while we led our public meetings. Because we had so few musicians in that church, Anne and I often led worship, too. Anne led the singing; I played the guitar.

In our current church plant in Dresden, Germany , we have a number of good musicians and a few good public speakers. We gladly let them emcee our meetings and lead worship whenever possible.

Our newest TEAM missionary, Lexi, has a bachelor’s degree in youth ministry and Bible, a master’s degree in counseling and, I jokingly say, a doctorate in GoPro video making. All these gifts will be helpful in our church plant.

One of the sponsors of our regional evangelistic campaign needed some quick help editing two companies’ promotional videos that will be shown during the campaign. I didn’t want to lose him as a sponsor, but I didn’t have the expertise or time to help him, so I asked Lexi to take on the project. She did a great job, and the businessman was thrilled with the final product!

As Harry Truman once said: “It’s amazing what you can accomplish when you don’t care who gets the credit.” Good church planters are not out to make names for themselves ; ultimately our efforts to plant churches should bring glory to God . And a healthy, synergistic team brings glory to God!

By Megan Lunsford 23 Apr, 2024
When seeking to serve cross-culturally with an authentic love for others, there’s no better example for us than Jesus. If we sat around a table and threw out the question, “How do we love like Jesus?” I think we would have several commonalities as we respond. For example, Jesus loved all people right where they were. He loved those who were deemed the least, those hardest to love, or those who were His enemies. These are all beautiful realities of the heart of Jesus. When we step into relationships, it can be easier to take on the warmer, more gracious gestures of Jesus’ love, especially in cross-cultural relationships. Think about it––when doing life with those who look and act differently than us, we are already out of our comfort zones and would rather keep things as simple and familiar as possible. But there are other facets of Jesus’ heart we often overlook that can transform us and others even more into His likeness. Jesus is love because God is love. Everything Jesus did was out of love; it’s the mere definition of who He is. As followers of Jesus, He calls us to the same: “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.” (1 John:7-12) Every display of love we offer to others is an opportunity for them to encounter the ultimate love of the Father. That’s a pretty big deal! In this article, we’ll look at three expressions of Jesus’ love that we tend to overlook when engaging others cross-culturally. (Next month, we’ll look at three more.) 1. Jesus loved sacrificially. Everywhere Jesus went, crowds followed Him. We even see times in Scripture where Jesus had plans to step away for time alone but those who were hurting found Him and He had compassion on them and stayed with them. Can you imagine rarely having any time to yourself but, instead, constantly being surrounded by crowds of people wanting help from you? Jesus loved sacrificially. He welcomed all who came to Him with love and compassion, never turning anyone away. “When He saw the crowds, He was moved with compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matthew 9:36) In the same way, we can make room in our lives for Jesus to bring sacrificial interruptions which, in His eyes, are orchestrated encounters to transfer His love to others. It can be tempting to be so “on mission” that we are full steam ahead and find ourselves frustrated when the Holy Spirit sends an interruption into our path that we feel we don’t have time for. Or, perhaps, we have scheduled a meet-up but it’s the norm in another culture to be 30 minutes or an hour late. We anxiously think through how it will affect whatever we have planned next. While it’s normal to feel a little stressed, what if the very "interruption” standing in front of you was really a divine appointment sent by God? Or what if that person running late experiences how peaceful and gracious you are in adapting to their culture and therefore, they can encounter a beautiful display of Jesus’ love? To truly represent Christ, we should remain ready and willing for each assignment the Lord sends into our path, no matter the cost or how much we will have to re-route our day. He is always a hundred steps ahead and will work all things for His glory and our good. 2. Jesus loved by discerning each situation well. Think about how many situations Jesus had to respond to on a daily basis. We read in Scripture that there were lines of people waiting to be healed by Him, talk to Him, hear His teachings, or simply touch the hem of His robe. Jesus was fully dependent on His Father to discern each situation before addressing it. “Most assuredly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, but what He sees the Father do; for whatever He does, the Son also does in like manner.” (John 5:19) Another temptation we can have when in a relationship with those God has sent us to is to think we already know the solution or what God wants to do before we’ve even asked Him. We believe we are full of knowledge, so we just pull from the bank we have stored within and go with it. However, when we access what is familiar to us as our default, we risk missing out on a God-given solution that might truly be the key to unlocking whatever challenge is in front of us. What does this look like when interacting with others? We can simply ask, “God, what is on Your heart for the person standing in front of me?” Then we listen and respond as He speaks. When we make it a daily habit to pause and hear God’s heart for each situation before responding, we are guaranteed to be effective in loving those around us. He knows the heart of every person that will cross our paths. Imagine how impactful we can be if we first lean on His wisdom and discernment before moving forward. 3. Jesus loved by speaking truth. Most of us are familiar with the story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well. If we are honest, this conversation makes us a bit nervous as none of us would be comfortable with Jesus calling out intimate details of our lives that we would prefer to hide. But Jesus went further than just airing her dirty laundry. He offered her the hope of the Gospel and a relationship with Him - a divine fulfillment that could never be found in an earthly relationship. Jesus modeled a powerful example of loving others well cross-culturally. He took the low place and spoke truth, truly out of love––speaking to her heart from His. Like Jesus, our goal in sharing the truths about Him and His Word is to bring hope and satisfaction through Him alone. When we speak truth from Scripture, we are calling others higher into all God has for them. The tricky part here is we should avoid speaking truth if it isn’t first fueled by compassion. If it merely comes from a place of judgment, condemnation, or self-righteousness, it will fall flat 100% of the time. But if it truly comes from love, you are likely to not only win a heart back to the Father but, like the story of the Samaritan woman, even an entire village! If you see someone living outside of God’s best for their lives, ask God to show you your heart before engaging theirs. Once your heart is properly postured, you can speak truth out of an overflow of God’s love and trust Him for a transformation in their lives.
By Suzanne Pearson 16 Apr, 2024
TEAM Canada provides warm welcome and trusted friendships for diaspora populations living far from their native countries. As TEAM Canada workers Peter and Ruth (names changed) drive from their home to a nearby community center, they pass numerous apartment buildings and townhouses. Most of the families who live there are immigrants. They’ve left their countries of origin due to political unrest, trauma, and other difficulties. They’ve left family, friends, homes, jobs, and personal wealth behind. They search for peace, justice for the oppressed, and rest from fear and weariness. And as they adjust to a new country and a new language, they are often very isolated from others around them. “The sad reality is most immigrants are never even invited inside a Canadian home,” says Ruth. Peter and Ruth and their team try to change that reality. For the last nine years, the team, which includes workers from partner organizations as well as volunteers, has held English classes at the community center. Three days a week, over 60 students from more than 20 countries come together to learn English as well as to fellowship together and receive practical help in assimilating to a new normal. Meeting Needs and Building Trust That practical help may come in the form of procuring furniture, clothes, or dishes for newcomers, assistance with creating a resume and finding a job, or teaching people how to navigate Canadian laws and the medical system. As these tangible needs are met, relationships are built. “We invite them into our homes for meals and games,” Ruth shares. “We take them on hiking trips, picnics, outings, and out for coffee.” This is particularly important in this type of ministry because most immigrants come to Canada from cultures that value hospitality. Conversely, Canadians do not typically prioritize hospitality and consequently many newcomers feel lonely and isolated. Inviting folks to various gatherings and outings allows the team to spend extended time hearing people’s stories, struggles, hopes, and dreams. When she speaks about building friendships, Ruth’s heart for the people she serves is evident. “Hearing their stories, it’s easy to love them, and many have become close friends,” Ruth says. “We recognize the value of steady one-on-one relationships.”
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