‘More than Just a Basketball Thing’

Heidi Chupp • Aug 16, 2021

When two visitors showed up at Cristian’s middle school, he had no idea that the basketball program they promoted would end three long years of loneliness.

It wasn’t easy growing up in La Paz, Mexico , where Cristian regularly navigated offers of drugs, family dysfunction and his own adolescent hormones.

And he was doing it pretty much all on his own.

He’d had some good friends, neighbors who provided a safe space and a listening ear — and who also pointed him to Jesus.

But they moved away. Where Cristian had once found friendship and spiritual guidance, now there was only emptiness .

“I kind of fell apart,” Cristian remembers.

Not Just a Sports Club

It was 2015, and TEAM missionaries had just launched Transformados (“Transformed”), a youth ministry in La Paz.

They began a basketball club and held practices at a public court, all the while looking for ways to get the word out to the community. They arranged a weekend basketball program at Cristian’s school, and TEAM missionary Phil Eager and a co-worker brought flyers to invite all the students .

Cristian already loved playing soccer and was interested in learning other sports too. So he was excited about Phil’s invitation. Plus the name Transformados caught his attention.

As he returned for practices, Cristian realized that Transformados was much more than a sports club. Phil and the other leaders cared about each student. Their deepest desire was for each one to know the love and peace of God.

For the first time in a long time, Cristian found companionship and connection.

Growth and Friendship

About a year later, Cristian approached Phil and asked if they could study the Bible together. Phil gladly said yes.

Their weekly time together has led to a close friendship. Cristian has continued to grow in his love for Jesus and now understands more fully what it means to follow Him.

“[Phil] would answer any questions I had,” Cristian says. And Cristian has had a lot of questions .

They have discussed the basics of the Christian faith and worked their way, verse by verse, through books of the Bible. Currently they’re doing an in-depth study on the Holy Spirit, and also discussing the significance of baptism.

Along with his spiritual growth, Cristian has gained something else, too.

“I have a friend,” Cristian says of Phil. “If I need something, I know I can count on him.”

’Just Like They Helped Me’

As Cristian grew in his skills and relationship with Christ, he took on a leadership role in Transformados. He wants to help other kids the way he was helped.

As Cristian grew in his skills and relationship with Christ, he took on a leadership role in Transformados. He wants to help other kids the way he was helped.

After two more years, Cristian started helping with summer basketball camps as a student leader. He continues to this day.

In addition to working with the younger students on their basketball skills, he and other students meet once a month for leadership training and to help with activity planning. (These activities continue as COVID-19 restrictions allow.)

“I like working with children and I like to teach what [Phil and others] have already taught me. … Just like they helped me, they guided me, I have the opportunity to guide other people,” Cristian says.

Life-on-Life Discipleship

The youth who attend Transformados, currently around 45, range in age from elementary to university students.

Phil says that the leaders’ desire for each one is the same: “We wanna see these kids’ lives changed for the better, to enter into a relationship with Jesus Christ and to be able to impact their community and their city and their country.”

Their philosophy of life-on-life discipleship shapes their daily activities and decisions.

“It’s more than just a basketball thing,” says Phil.

“[It’s] inviting the kids [and] their families into our life and being part of their lives,” says Pattie, Phil’s wife and co-leader . “Looking for opportunities to support them in their interests.”

It could mean welcoming kids over for coffee, to play games, practice music or shoot some hoops in their back yard. It also means cheering them on in school sports activities, supporting them in school leadership efforts, or walking with them through family loss.

“They know that we’re gonna be there for them,” says Pattie.

After practice, the teens gather for a time of Bible discussion and prayer, allowing them to draw near to God and ask questions.

After practice, the teens gather for a time of Bible discussion and prayer, allowing them to draw near to God and ask questions.

A Vision to Help

Today Cristian is studying psychology as a university student, with a vision to someday help children and their families as a therapist.

He remembers what it was like to grow up in his neighborhood and the pitfalls of drug usage, teen alcoholism and domestic abuse. He knows kids face those same challenges today, and he wants to help them as he’s been helped .

“I want to teach people what the relationship with Jesus is like. … the way God works in us spiritually and how He can work with others,” he says.

Transformados = Family

Cristian is a natural competitor and still enjoys a good game of basketball. He especially likes basketball at Transformados, though.

Because it’s a chance to play with his team, whether they win or lose.

Because this group is a family for him.

“We all help each other,” he says. “We don’t leave anyone behind, but we move together. … A family is there in the good times and the bad times, and that’s what the Transformados team is all about.”

How Can You Pray for Cristian and for Transformados?

Pray that Cristian will stay strong in his faith and have discernment as he encounters philosophies in his university classes that challenge his relationship with Jesus.

Students face constant pressure to conform — from peers, social media, gangs and family traditions. Pray that each student would experience a truly transformative encounter with Christ and steady spiritual growth.

The Transformados team has dreams of expanding the ministry by purchasing land. Pray for God’s provision of property and for funds to purchase it.

By Megan Lunsford 23 Apr, 2024
When seeking to serve cross-culturally with an authentic love for others, there’s no better example for us than Jesus. If we sat around a table and threw out the question, “How do we love like Jesus?” I think we would have several commonalities as we respond. For example, Jesus loved all people right where they were. He loved those who were deemed the least, those hardest to love, or those who were His enemies. These are all beautiful realities of the heart of Jesus. When we step into relationships, it can be easier to take on the warmer, more gracious gestures of Jesus’ love, especially in cross-cultural relationships. Think about it––when doing life with those who look and act differently than us, we are already out of our comfort zones and would rather keep things as simple and familiar as possible. But there are other facets of Jesus’ heart we often overlook that can transform us and others even more into His likeness. Jesus is love because God is love. Everything Jesus did was out of love; it’s the mere definition of who He is. As followers of Jesus, He calls us to the same: “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.” (1 John:7-12) Every display of love we offer to others is an opportunity for them to encounter the ultimate love of the Father. That’s a pretty big deal! In this article, we’ll look at three expressions of Jesus’ love that we tend to overlook when engaging others cross-culturally. (Next month, we’ll look at three more.) 1. Jesus loved sacrificially. Everywhere Jesus went, crowds followed Him. We even see times in Scripture where Jesus had plans to step away for time alone but those who were hurting found Him and He had compassion on them and stayed with them. Can you imagine rarely having any time to yourself but, instead, constantly being surrounded by crowds of people wanting help from you? Jesus loved sacrificially. He welcomed all who came to Him with love and compassion, never turning anyone away. “When He saw the crowds, He was moved with compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matthew 9:36) In the same way, we can make room in our lives for Jesus to bring sacrificial interruptions which, in His eyes, are orchestrated encounters to transfer His love to others. It can be tempting to be so “on mission” that we are full steam ahead and find ourselves frustrated when the Holy Spirit sends an interruption into our path that we feel we don’t have time for. Or, perhaps, we have scheduled a meet-up but it’s the norm in another culture to be 30 minutes or an hour late. We anxiously think through how it will affect whatever we have planned next. While it’s normal to feel a little stressed, what if the very "interruption” standing in front of you was really a divine appointment sent by God? Or what if that person running late experiences how peaceful and gracious you are in adapting to their culture and therefore, they can encounter a beautiful display of Jesus’ love? To truly represent Christ, we should remain ready and willing for each assignment the Lord sends into our path, no matter the cost or how much we will have to re-route our day. He is always a hundred steps ahead and will work all things for His glory and our good. 2. Jesus loved by discerning each situation well. Think about how many situations Jesus had to respond to on a daily basis. We read in Scripture that there were lines of people waiting to be healed by Him, talk to Him, hear His teachings, or simply touch the hem of His robe. Jesus was fully dependent on His Father to discern each situation before addressing it. “Most assuredly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, but what He sees the Father do; for whatever He does, the Son also does in like manner.” (John 5:19) Another temptation we can have when in a relationship with those God has sent us to is to think we already know the solution or what God wants to do before we’ve even asked Him. We believe we are full of knowledge, so we just pull from the bank we have stored within and go with it. However, when we access what is familiar to us as our default, we risk missing out on a God-given solution that might truly be the key to unlocking whatever challenge is in front of us. What does this look like when interacting with others? We can simply ask, “God, what is on Your heart for the person standing in front of me?” Then we listen and respond as He speaks. When we make it a daily habit to pause and hear God’s heart for each situation before responding, we are guaranteed to be effective in loving those around us. He knows the heart of every person that will cross our paths. Imagine how impactful we can be if we first lean on His wisdom and discernment before moving forward. 3. Jesus loved by speaking truth. Most of us are familiar with the story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well. If we are honest, this conversation makes us a bit nervous as none of us would be comfortable with Jesus calling out intimate details of our lives that we would prefer to hide. But Jesus went further than just airing her dirty laundry. He offered her the hope of the Gospel and a relationship with Him - a divine fulfillment that could never be found in an earthly relationship. Jesus modeled a powerful example of loving others well cross-culturally. He took the low place and spoke truth, truly out of love––speaking to her heart from His. Like Jesus, our goal in sharing the truths about Him and His Word is to bring hope and satisfaction through Him alone. When we speak truth from Scripture, we are calling others higher into all God has for them. The tricky part here is we should avoid speaking truth if it isn’t first fueled by compassion. If it merely comes from a place of judgment, condemnation, or self-righteousness, it will fall flat 100% of the time. But if it truly comes from love, you are likely to not only win a heart back to the Father but, like the story of the Samaritan woman, even an entire village! If you see someone living outside of God’s best for their lives, ask God to show you your heart before engaging theirs. Once your heart is properly postured, you can speak truth out of an overflow of God’s love and trust Him for a transformation in their lives.
By Suzanne Pearson 16 Apr, 2024
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